These days even men can enjoy the benefits associated with sex toys. Prostate stimulation can make you feel like you need to pee, and anal penetration can cause the sensation of needing to poop. When a curved anal toy is inside her anus, the partner's penis (or her dildo) is forced forward which increases g-spot contact during the thrusting motion resulting in increased pleasure for her.
The good thing about sex toys like a penis ring or vibrators: you can also play wonderfully with them as a couple. You'll want to reach your fingers as if you're trying to touch their belly button with your fingers fully extended, says Goldstein. It more relates to the movement: Just like how milking a cow requires manual manipulation of the cow's udder, you're using your hand (or more specifically, finger) to stimulate a man's prostate, says Goldsetin.
Other guys don't have long enough fingers to reach their own prostate and need a toy to stimulate it. So, before you start, apply a generous amount of high quality lube to both the anus and whatever is being used to penetrate it. You can also use prostate vibrating massager what's called a lube shooter†to get lube higher up into the rectum, closer to the prostate.
Don't rush now, as it can take your body a little while to adjust to the feeling of having something inside your butt It might feel like you are having, or need to have a poo. While many massagers rely upon the body's own natural muscular contractions of the anal sphincter and anal wall to stimulate the prostate, some of the newer models come with vibrators built into them to increase sexual pleasure.
It helped me learn about my body and how it responds to prostate play. When you're fully erect, lube up your anus and your toy with silicone lube. As we're not using a specially-designed prostate massager this time, you're going to need to find your prostate manually, and that takes some anatomical knowledge.